Tutoring takes you from flawed to fantastic!
Having a mentor is the solution when you’re stuck in a rut and don’t know what to do next.
Have you attended many different high level courses and yet never really optimized the ideas you learned from them? Do you have doubts about your ability to achieve what is most important to you? Wondering if you’ll ever have the right things to stand out? Do you suspect that the flaws that have accumulated over the years will prevent you from taking a step towards your greatness?
What changed for me is having an exceptional mentor who has always been there for me. He (as all mentors should do) has calmed my fears, believing first in my talents. His faith in me, the way he expresses his love for me, and his positive energy that gets me through these occasional periods of self-doubt.
You’ll know you’ve chosen the best mentor for you when you talk to him (or her) on the phone and feel like all your “problems” are beneath his attention. You can then focus on what you are good at and be on your way to being great.
Sometimes you can still get stuck, even with the best mentor. this happened to me With the help of my mentor, I had managed to create a website and give a series of ten talks, but I was still stuck on going to the next level.
My flaws still held me back. Because some “flaws” are physical, like having a traumatic brain injury and impaired fine motor skills, they won’t go away. I realized that instead of struggling with these “flaws”, I need to accept them and design a team to counteract them.
After more than a year without having coaching sessions, I recently restarted them with an intensive plan designed especially for me. This time we’re doing this as a team, and it’s making all the difference in the world.
In addition to my mentor, there is someone on the team who records the training session and prepares detailed notes of everything that was discussed. This way, so I don’t have to worry about taking notes, or worry about forgetting something. He also calls me every day to keep me focused and accountable for my coaching duties.
There is a fourth member who was another missing piece of the puzzle. He is able to do all the technical work on my website. So far I haven’t had a consistent person on the website to handle bugs and make updates, which has held me back. He also has the sophisticated skills, like search engine optimization, that are needed to take you to the next level.
This equipment is like a tripod. At the top is my mentor, a man who knows me better than anyone. It’s the best situation I’ve ever been in, because now I’m going from Defective to Fantastic.
If you want to get unstuck, then take action. You can do the same thing I did.
To go from Faulty to Fantastic, here’s what you need to do:
Evaluate an area of your life that is not working.
So ask yourself a better question: What would have to happen in my situation to get more joy, love, peace, or connection to my purpose?
Write down your “flaws,” or the reasons you’re stuck, without judging them.
Accept that you have these flaws and love yourself completely, even the flaws.
Find other people who have skills that make up for the flaws.
Find a mentor who believes in you and has the specialized knowledge to teach you how to achieve your goals.
Use a team approach when working with your mentor.
Celebrate being Fantastic, even with the flaws still there!
Don’t worry about how you will find the people you need. Ask the universe with love in your heart and you will see what it offers you. It will work, if you just ask for it.