Strict Orgasm Control: Why Insist On It For Your Husband

Strict orgasm control sounds like something out of the Middle Ages, or something out of a cold, loveless relationship. But when you get to the end of this article, you’ll understand why…

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It may be the best thing you’ve ever done for yourself and your man.

The fact is that men’s sexuality is driven by their orgasm. And once they’ve reached that peak, we’ve lost their interest for a while (and the older they get, the more common and longer this pause is).

Women, on the other hand, reach our sexual peak relatively late in life, and the result is that we’re ready for more…and are fired up, so to speak.

So how can we reconcile these two seemingly irreconcilable differences?

Simple: strict orgasm control. In other words, you are telling your man that you are now in control of his orgasm and that he is not going to have one… with you or alone. And to ‘enforce’ that decision, you’re going to ask him to wear a male chastity device.

Now, let’s understand a few things: you can’t force your man to do this, and you shouldn’t try either. Orgasm control really belongs in the context of a love relationship, so you must enter it through negotiation and consent.

However, you will find some surprising data:

First, you will most likely readily accept IF you can see a clear benefit to it. You’ll need to demonstrate these benefits instead of just telling him about them.

Secondly, A lot of men actually have this as their fantasy, so it’s not too unlikely that you’ll be giving him all of his Christmases at once!

And third, once you get down to business, don’t be surprised if he begs you to make his denial permanent. This is weird, but it’s something you should be prepared for. Many men will beg for permanent orgasm denial, which I admit is also a hot fantasy for the woman, especially if he gives his blessing for you to take a lover to satisfy those particular needs that he can no longer satisfy, but presents problems. of your own. It’s not something my husband and I would do (he has one orgasm a year, and that’s enough), but it works for some.

There is a lot of hype and nonsense online about orgasm control and male chastity, not the least of which is the idea that you can do it to your man without his cooperation and consent, and if you’re SICK and TIRED of the silly stories. on blogs and forums and you want the truth from a genuine lifestyle couple who lives it 24/7, then…