How to have a great marriage with a Jamaican man

Many articles are written about how to get a ‘JAMAICAN MAN’, but it is also extremely important to know how to maintain the relationship and keep the man in your life. Many Jamaican men are afraid to take the plunge into marriage because they feel “THE WOMAN CHANGES WHEN SHE GETS THE RING”. Yes, sometimes women take things for granted and some women are very immature in their actions, however most of the time miscommunication and misunderstandings are the main culprits that lead to the path of separation. Below are some of the things women need to keep in mind in order to maintain a great marriage with a Jamaican man.

1) LISTEN- The first year of marriage is “THE YEAR OF KNOWING EACH OTHER”. It is the year in which you learn more about your partner. Although you will continue to learn about him as the years go by, the first year is when you are most surprised by his different moods and actions, reactions, and overall personality. Jamaican men basically communicate more during the dating stage and early marriage. LISTEN WELL and ask questions if you are not sure. Women who don’t listen well and/or don’t pay close attention to what he says will miss out and suffer the consequences later. He will close when he feels that you are not very sensitive to his needs or desires (not that he is selfish, but he thinks that if you love him you will try to do the things that he likes). Most Jamaican men are extremely family oriented and will not get divorced quickly, however you can shut down completely while staying in the marital home. The Jamaican man will tell you his likes and dislikes, but he won’t repeat himself constantly! So remember ladies our first duty is to LISTEN! He certainly won’t have the same argument over and over again!

2) COMMUNICATE- The next step to having a great marriage with a Jamaican man is learning to communicate well. Our Jamaican men are not the most patient of men and will get frustrated very easily. However, you can make him love you even more and want to be closer to you if he feels connected and free to be himself. It is very important that a woman not attack her husband when he says something that she does not like or approve of. Sometimes it is extremely difficult to control our emotions, but it is very important to do so. Never sweep bad feelings under the rug, just pick the right time to talk. Most conversations can be had in the bedroom, right before bed (especially if there are children at home). Try never to go to bed mad at each other. If the problem needs more time to work out, making an appointment to do it, going out for a drink, dinner or even a walk can be a very relaxing way to talk more and come to terms with disagreements. The main thing is to give yourself time to talk while the other listens. Put yourself in the other partner’s shoes and ask yourself “how would I feel?” Getting his woman’s respect is at the top of a Jamaican man’s list. Never talk to a Jamaican man like you are in charge, always be submissive, however have everything under control. Know exactly what he wants and stick to the point (Don’t keep deviating from the things he did the previous months).

3) BE A GREAT HOUSEWIFE – A Jamaican man takes pride in his home. His home is his castle where he is the king and he likes to have peace. Home is where he comes to recharge, relax, and be himself. He doesn’t like coming home and having to face an argument or a disgruntled face. He likes to come home to a beautifully groomed woman with welcoming arms who is happy to see him. Jamaican men enjoy coming home to a very clean house and they also appreciate delicious food. They like a wife who cooks well and entertains well. This practice is his idea of ​​having an excellent housewife and wife. He also likes it when his wife cares a lot about her health.

4) DISCOVER YOUR SLEEP ROUTINE – One very important thing couples need to keep in mind is “what time is your partner on”. This is not taken into consideration by many and has caused many separations. Some people are early risers, which means they are most alive, alert, and vibrant in the mornings. The morning person gets up very early in the morning and can sometimes be insensitive to the other person’s sleep needs. Sometimes they feel the need to discuss some very important things early in the morning, which at that time would not be properly processed by the other spouse who is trying to sleep or relax in bed. Sometimes the feeling of rejection can start to brew if a couple’s conversation is taken lightly in this case, or if their sexual advances and desires are put aside. The same thing happens when one partner is a night person and the other is not. The night person may feel that she is being rejected, not getting enough attention, and ultimately unloved. Once this part of the relationship is resolved and couples are able to commit, a great weight can be lifted from the shoulders of the marriage.

5) TAKE CARE OF HIM: Jamaican men like their women to “watch their backs.” Never talk about him in a negative way with your best friends or family. Never make jokes about him in a negative way or expose his downfalls to others. This allows him to feel less of a man and not feel comfortable with you. If your partner is the type of person who likes to be the center of attention, say things that cheer you up when you are around others. Pay attention to his interests, hobbies and goals in life, support him at all times. Always let him and others know that you are on his side. Always wait until you get home to let him know if you strongly disagree with him on a particular issue.

6) LET HIM BE THE MAN: Jamaican men like to be in charge of the family. Their actions may not show it sometimes, but they have a need to constantly “WEAR THE PANTS”. They are usually full of pride and care what people think of them in regards to being the head of the family. Allow him to have an equal share in important decisions related to home, family, and finances. Be loving and gentle with him, but strong and assertive when the need arises. The Jamaican man, although he likes to be in charge, loves a strong woman.

7) MAINTAIN HER APPEARANCE: Like any other man, the Jamaican man takes great pride when his wife “FIXES HERSELF” (looks good all the time). After all, it was one of the reasons he was attracted to you in the first time! Even when finances aren’t up to scratch, style your hair attractively, take the time to put on your makeup, and wear clothes that fit you well. Many women tend to eat more during stressful times and therefore gain weight, they never go out and buy new clothes that fit well after weight gain. Work out at the gym or go for long walks to lose those extra pounds! Always maintain good hygiene, wear your favorite perfumes and ALWAYS, ALWAYS wear great lingerie.

8) PRIVACY – The lock of a great marriage! Anything else can close that door, but if you really want a safe and secure relationship, the extra bolt on that door would be great intimacy with him. A Jamaican man enjoys extra attention and he will get it from somewhere! So make sure he comes from you! Intimacy doesn’t start in the bedroom! Always remember, you have to make him feel like the man, be the sexiest you can be, listen to him, communicate well, take care of him, be a great housewife and you will have his heart. Make him feel like you’re submitting to him, look passionately into his eyes when you talk to him, and remind him that you’re his baby (no matter how old you are). When a Jamaican man feels that he can trust you and there is passion, he will give himself to you, his heart and soul. Sex is of the utmost importance to the Jamaican man, however, when it comes to his special woman, he prefers the term “make love.” Making love is the best gift between a man and his wife, the Jamaican man has no reservations when it comes to that special moment. When a Jamaican man is happy and content, he can create heaven here on earth for you.